'The Bachelorette': Xavier Reveals Why He Waited to Tell Charity About His Past Infidelity (Exclusive)
etonline.comcontestant at the «Men Tell All» taping last month, and he shared his reason for not telling Charity Lawson about his past infidelity before their Fantasy Suite date.«I think that's a really taboo topic to get into.
So I was kind of scared to talk about it, but I wanted to show her that [I was] willing to risk all in order to earn her trust,» he told ET. «That and show her exactly the man I am… I wanted us to be able to have those tough conversations and make headway and make sure that that's possible in our relationship.»Charity, however, told ET that she wishes she'd known about Xavier's past behavior earlier on. «I would have loved that on our one-on-one date.
That would have been a beautiful time,» she said, before expressing her shock over Xavier's reveal given how her Hometown date with him went.«Obviously at Hometowns getting that reassurance from his family, I asked all those questions, I brought up questions about past relationships and that never came up,» she said. "… [I] felt like I was being blindsided and caught off guard with the things that was being shared with me.«Given that, Charity decided to send Xavier home, something that he said he was „not expecting.“»It is what it is.
I think at the end of the day everything happens for a reason," he said. "… She did the best thing for her.«Even in retrospect, Xavier told ET that there's not „a lot I would have done or said differently“ during that conversation with Charity.»I think that I would have said it in a way that was more eloquent.
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