Noella Bergener Explains Breakup From Bobby Schubenski, Plans for a ‘Real’ Marriage — and ‘RHOC’ Return?

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The future is unclear in more ways than one for Noella Bergener. The Real Housewives of Orange County star is breaking down her current relationship status — “I’m a lot!” — and where she stands with plans to film season 17 of the Bravo hit exclusively with Us Weekly.When reality TV fans last saw the 36-year-old O.C.

resident, she introduced them to boyfriend Bobby Schubenski on the season 16 reunion, which aired in April.

The twosome have since split.“Bobby’s amazing, I have nothing but love and respect and just a lot of gratitude for our path’s crossing.

A lot with relationships is timing and it just wasn’t our time,” Bergener exclusively told Us while recently promoting her partnership with Seeking at the Baccarat Hotel in New York City. “I think the most important takeaway from that experience — to tell all the ladies out there — just as important as it is to fall in love and have those feels, it’s also equally as important to know when it’s time to choose yourself.”The TV personality’s brief romance with Schubenski came after she and ex-husband James Bergener split during season 16.“Maybe there’s some PTSD going on, that’s what I struggled with a little bit toward the end of, like, maybe I just have trust issues because my ex cheated me,” she continued. “But also we don’t tell ourselves enough [that] it’s OK to be selfish.